Girls are everywhere, but it is not always easy to find the right time and location and start to pick up. If you are waiting for the perfect opportunity – when there are no people around, so you won’t get embarrassed in front of them, or you are waiting when the girl smiles at you and says “can you take me home sweety?”, you are doing it wrong! There are not many such perfect opportunities in life, but there are many, literally thousands of semi-good looking one’s, where you have to use your skills to make the best out of situation. Where to pick up girls? Almost anywhere, there are places though, which are more and less interesting for getting women. I don’t want to talk about places like bars, discos, parties, concerts etc. So, what are the special places, and what is the tactics for each one?
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Pick up at the farmers’ markets
Have you ever heard of farmer’s markets? Those are the places, where beautiful women sell great quality food for a bit higher prices, but what you wouldn’t do for their nice smile? Well, you can get much more than just smile there. Just start by looking at the groceries she’s selling and then start asking related stuff, after a while (If the girl seems nice) you can go to a personal level (and please don’t get back to food), just ask her, how is it to be there all the days, maybe you will discover, that she studies some school, so you can talk about that. After a nice chat, just ask her how long she stays here with the market, they usually say long, because they are often children or somehow related to the shop keepers. Then return some other time, if it will be nice chat again, don’t worry and ask for date or number. Sometimes you can try to invite her, after the first encounter, it really depends, how the conversation went.
Pick up at the marketing campaigns kiosks
I am sure you know about the small kiosks, which usually appear in some supermarkets to promote some product for certain small period of time. Those are goldmine for beautiful women! And you can meet different there, because mostly those are part-time workers so they change a lot. The funny thing, they usually also think that the stuff they are selling is totally cr*p, so you can little bit joke on this topic: “Honestly, what do you think about this pan for $300, would you buy it yourself”? Chicks are usually very honest in this, and you can have good laughs together. You have to be pretty direct here, follow the process, get her number and invite her somewhere.
Pick up in the malls
Yeah, it’s easy to pick up at the malls, but you have to have your eyes wide open and see the opportunities. In case you need to know – an opportunity is a beautiful girl sitting on those resting places alone and waiting. They are usually waiting for someone there (mom, friend, boyfriend, girlfriend), or they stopped for reorganizing stuff, in either case you have to be fast as lightning there, don’t hesitate, sit next to her and start to pick up. I would give you the advice to be on the same level with her, because if you are talking to her standing, she might feel a bit uneasy. You can pretend to be waiting for someone there or just be honest. Try different approaches and see what works for you.
Pick up at the bus stop stops
If you are both bored and wait for bus or tram, then you can just something like “Is the driver always late?”, “is it ok to travel without ticket, here?”, “Is it quicker to go to place ‘x’ by foot or with this bus?” etc. It totally doesn’t matter, what her answer is going to be, important thing is, you got the conversation rolling and that’s about it. The great thing about this, is the girl usually just kills time here, so she won’t be trying to get anywhere else or feel any pressure, she will just wait for the bus with you.
Pick up in the bars/restaurants
How to pick up the waitress? That’s the question interesting for us, because there were already too many articles written about pick up of girls in bars. So, how you do it? Just be different. Don’t hit on her, when she expects to be hit on, it means in the evening/at night, when she expects people to be drunk. Instead, be sure to pick time, when she does not feel much pressure, as there are not many guests, hit on her during late lunch, when the first wave of customers is gone and she’s a bit tired and relaxed. Do it without ordering any alcohol (you can drink some in order to be more relaxed before) , smile at her and talk to her. Go this way: meals -> restaurant -> Job -> her -> you and her somewhere.
Pick up in stores
The same as for restaurants applies here, you have to be different and spot the moment, when there’s not many customers waiting, so you can concentrate on each other. Usually she will tell you how shitty this job is, because she is pretty and thinks she should achieve something more in life, you can have a conversation about that, but don’t make the mistake of offering her something (new job etc.), you might look to needy at this point.
In the public libraries
You know the calm places, where many beautiful chicks are? Yes, the public libraries! And what are they doing there? They wait for a guy like you are, to be seduced by, so don’t hesitate. Honestly public libraries are perfect place to get chicks, but you would like to get out with a girl after a while, because sometimes you are not allowed to talk loud. You can go out with her out smoking or you can suggest go eating something. That’s good because at the big libraries, there are usually buffets or restaurants inside or close to. You can expect to meet really nice intellectual girls here, which are sometimes so wild, you wouldn’t even think, that she was the cute girl with book and glasses!
Phases of pickup
If you want to be successful in you pick up attempts, there are 3 important phases:
Start
Midpoint
Exit
During start, it is important to start the conversation. Think about:
Not forcing the conversation
Talking about place/time related stuff
Direct eye contact with her
Little smile, good energy
Relaxing yourself
Talking slowly and clearly
In the midpoint think about:
Follow the process and go from low intimacy to higher intimacy
Let it flow naturally, don’t think about the structure during the conversation, think about it before and then let it go
Discovering information about her
Discovering for you interesting information
Enjoy a good time
At the exit (It is very important phase so don’t mess it up!), think about:
Creating expectation for the future
Find a way to contact/meet her again
Look like a busy guy, who enjoyed great time, but now has to go – This can be done with your friend. Who will call you on the cell phone, when you give him signal, or you can create ringtone, which starts after a few second (beginning is silent) and turn it on in your pocket.
Give her warm smile, and separate
Conclusion
The truth is you can pick up girls almost anywhere. And if you follow the process and don’t mess up on the way, you can be successful anywhere. Remember it is all about small details, you can create an awesome experience for her, which she would remember a long time, or you can mess up and say something stupid, then she will think “What a jerk” and forgets you immediately. Be cool, witty, aware, avoid fear and it should work out. Remember that every such experience is great, be it fail or win, and you will improve by it. If you did any sport, you know how many times you had to fail to get on a higher level. Meeting girls may be a great fun and hobby if you like and it can be life lasting process. This is a great area in life to master, as it can bring you many awesome experiences and joy. Attractive girls are waiting for you everywhere, go and get ‘em!
